Friday, November 14, 2008

Roommates and Change....










So today I found out that my roommate Lucy, who I have lived with for almost 3 years, and is positively one of my best friends is moving up north. So my movie buddy, dinner pal, and my right wing girl will be gone. Although I am very excited for her to start her new job and adventure I am going to miss her SO SO much!! We have had alot of adventures together and she has become more then just a roommate and friend she has become family!!! I'll miss you Skee!!

In the past 6 years I have lived with 18 different girls. Yes I said 18! Most fall to marriage (16 of 18, and another is rather close). It is always hard to find new people to live with. It probably one of the things I hate the most about being single, no living situation is ever secure. The girls you get into a routine with and love move on and you have to start over. Lucy, Josie and I have been the 3 hanging on together. Now, once again, Lucy is moving and Josie is not far from wedding bells. So that leaves me kinda in a pickle. I feel like an 18 year old moving out of my parents house for the first time. Will I find someone to live with? Will I like them? Will they be clean? Where will I live?? These are the questions now flooding my mind. It causes me great stress actually!! I have loved loved living with Josie and Lucy and they are irreplaceable!!

So now I sit here wondering where I'll be. Praying that I will find the right answer and follow my Heavenly Fathers plan for me. I am not a patient person, so waiting for answers is super hard. Also I am a person of routines. I like my life, I am comfortable so change scares the crap out of me. But I am going to try to be brave and put my trust in the Lord. (and keep all my fingers and toes crossed!!)

2 comments:

jami said...

NIkki, things will work out. Maybe her moving will help you begin the next chapter of your life. You have a great life with friends and family that love you. Keep praying and you will find the answer your looking for. We love you. Jami

Parduhn Family said...

Hey Nikki-
They did leave the slat down in the fence. Now they have easy access to each others backyard. Landon was out jumping on our tramp the other day and I didn't know it. They'll just take it down again. It's pretty funny. Hey I was going to ask if you wouldn't mind setting up a link to my new blog on your's. I set up a blog to sell hair bows and bracelets. Just trying to get it out there. Let me know and I'll email you a picture to set up a link.